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Assertiveness

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Fear of the consequences, such as a possible so-called bad mood that is not particularly appreciated by society or a verbal confrontation with the other person, leads to holding back again and again due to what is usually called supposed politeness. Things may be said but not conveyed in a way that the other person feels compelled to take them into account. The result is that other people decide about you and your life. You cannot assert yourself and become dissatisfied with yourself because you recognize an inner weakness in yourself that grows with every further disregard by other people, making you seem invincible. Facing the fear of confrontation is the solution. Overcoming inner fears and then failing a few times in the other direction, namely having said too much and sometimes unintentionally hurting other people, is the way to find the happy medium, which consists of being able to say and convey things in such a way that you are happy with them and other people can understand your thoughts and feelings about a matter. The following stones can help you to overcome fear.

Cornelian

Activating courage; fostering decisive action
Cornelian
A fiery stone that strengthens drive and energy. Carnelian can help one to move from thinking into doing; it can foster perseverance and self-confidence, especially when one's own path is met with resistance.
self-assertion
renewal
creativity
spirit
anger inhibiting
assertiveness
blood complaints
blood flow
blood stasis
blood wounds
decisiveness
heart
loyalty
propitiation
stability
stimulating the blood flow

Schorl

Giving steadfastness; strengthening boundaries
Schorl
A powerful protective stone that can help one to remain with oneself and not to be unsettled by outside opinions or energies. Schorl has a stabilising effect and can foster clarity in challenging situations.
absorption
brain
clearing
energy diversion
heart
nervous system
protection protection
regeneration
relaxation
reliability
sleep disorders stability

Sugilite

Strengthening inner truth; acting in a self-determined way
Sugilite
Sugilite can support the connection to one's own purpose and can help one no longer to bend out of shape. It can release old patterns of self-adaptation and strengthen the courage to stand up for one's own truth, even when the path appears uncomfortable.
addiction
addiction management
Aids
believe
brain
cancer
cell renewal
disorientation
drug addiction
fear
fresh start
incurable diseases
independence
motor activity
nerve
nervous system
self-control
self-possession
self-realization
self-realization
sexual dependence
sorrow
spirituality
stability
stroke of fate
ulcers
Gemwater

Gemwater can gently support physical and emotional well-being and help promote inner balance. The practice of making gemwater dates back to antiquity and was sometimes extremely complex. Nowadays, two comparatively simple yet practical and effective methods have become established. One is the direct method, in which the stones are placed directly in drinking water. The other is the indirect method, in which the stones rest in a separate container in the water without touching it directly. As not all stones are suitable for direct contact, you should familiarise yourself with their composition and suitability before using them.